Category Archives: Neil on the Loose

The Sad Effect Leaving Had on My Kids

This is a follow-up post to my “Why I Left My Last Church” post in this “Neil on the Lam” topic. I offer it in the spirit of “don’t let this happen to you, -or to families in your church.” … Continue reading

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Chapel or Church?

I’ve been attending a church that I think is really a “chapel.” Not that I think “chapel” is a bad word. Read on…. It’s primary mission seems to be to provide worship on Sunday -offering to God, and renewing our faith … Continue reading

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Living on St. Croix, USVI

My family and I lived on the island of St. Croix in the US Virgin Islands from July 2008 to January 2012. We arrived here the summer of 2008 on what we called our “Great Adventure.”  StX is about 60 miles southeast … Continue reading

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About not going to church…

Having a “choice” to get up and go to church on Sunday morning has been one of the most interesting and unnerving experiences I’ve had since I left working “for” a specific church, and began attending church as a “volunteer” once … Continue reading

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Why we left our last church…

…and what can be learned from our experience. I have edited this thing ten times. I’m sure some folks aren’t going to like what I have to say, or think I’m just ‘bitter’ as a way of avoiding the lessons here. … Continue reading

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The Wide Open Backdoor

Back Door = The door your members use to slip away from the congregation. If you suddenly stopped showing up, would anybody notice? More importantly, would anybody do anything about it? You’d like to THINK so. But our last three … Continue reading

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The Wide Open Side Door

This is another installment in my “On the Lam” blog. The following is another post about something important I learned the hard way. I hope you can use these observations to improve your church’s ministry. The Wide Open Side Door… … Continue reading

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On the Lam…

The “On the Lam” Blog Begins… I’m going to kick off this thread by telling you something not many people know about me.  I have tried three different churches in the 12 years since I left my full-time minister/parish work and moved … Continue reading

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